Single and Happy

       Embrace this moment cause you might wish you had it back. Singleness to me is an honor and it is a journey of self discovery that I am not willing to give up for just anyone. There are too many frustrated singles out their instead of satisfied singles. This should be a time when you get to know the real you and learn to love you no matter what. A time to build the character that will sustain you in your future relationship.

          

   Time to deal with those past hurts. Get counseling for things in your past that cause you pain whenever you think about it. Avoid carrying unnecessary baggage into any future relationship, deal with the issues now so they wont be a stumbling block in your relationship to come.

         

       Learn to love yourself not just like yourself. The main component of low self esteem is a lack of love for oneself. What we love we spend time with. Do you make time for yourself? Pamper yourself once in a while, compliment yourself on how beautiful you are without any makeup. Yes I said without makeup, your natural you is the real you and any compliment given at that moment means more that all others. Love your curves or your lack of curves, either way you are still gorgeous. 

Are you fun to be with? Hang out with yourself and discover what you consider to be fun and what keeps you going. Keep a self journal and write down what irritates you and what brings you joy, then go ahead and self analyze why they have that effect on you. Work on Enjoying this moment in your life, establish healthy routines such as working out or playing a sport. Love love love this season in your life. Enjoy the journey.